17 Best Sex Toys For Couples UK 2025 Best Sex Toys UK
From vibrating cock rings to bumper sex toy packs, we’ve narrowed down the best sex toy deals for couples to use together for mutual orgasmic bliss.
Only 25% of men use sex toys with a partner — let’s change that
By Rhalou Allerhand and Honey WyattUpdated: 24 February 2025 Jump to Products So you still haven’t got round to using couples sex toys? (No judgement here.) Maybe you’ve heard horror stories of men feeling replaced by sex toys in the bedroom (come on now, it’s 2025) or maybe you don’t want to ruin the moment by trying to navigate tricky buttons and rings or straps.
But trust us, if you need one little push to take the plunge into sex tech exploration, the benefits of using sex toys with a partner far outweigh the negatives (which are few and far between, we would say). Using sex toys with your partner can improve everything from performance, stamina, and orgasm rate — particularly crucial for women, 81% of whom can’t orgasm from penetrative sex alone.
‘Using sex toys as a couple can provide new and exciting ways to not only explore pleasure and different sensations all over the body but also start to bridge the gaps in sexual connection and satisfaction, especially for those with a vulva,’ explains Adam Lewis, founder of sex toy brand Hot Octopuss.
But it’s not just partners with a vulva that can benefit from using sex toys during partnered sex — they can also benefit men and improve connection between the two (or more) of you. ‘Using toys during partnered sex can help provide the extra stimulation that some with vulvas might need to reach orgasm, while penis toys can support challenges like erectile dysfunction or differing libidos,’ says Lewis.
‘Ultimately, toys allow couples to discover new layers of pleasure together and open up ways that both partners can feel like their physical needs are being met.’
How to choose a couples sex toy
At this point, you’ve likely purchased a sex toy for yourself — if not for you and a partner. Whether you’re totally new to couples sex toys, or hoping to keep the flame alive with a new bedroom tech friend, choosing what type of toy best suits you and your lover can be anxiety-inducing, at least.
But, fear not, Lewis points to three questions to ask yourselves when choosing a couple’s sex toy:
- What experience are you looking for?
- Do you have specific areas you would like to explore on your body?
- Do you want external or internal stimulation?
Opening up this conversation with your partner can help you invest in a toy that will enhance your sex life, Lewis explains. ‘Always start with curiosity, not pressure and view sex toys as an enhancement, not a replacement,’ he says.
‘Before buying anything and potentially wasting money, have an open and honest conversation about what you want to try together. Most importantly, choose a toy that excites both of you and encourages play rather than makes you feel hesitant or nervous.’
Once you have established what could add to your sex life you’re ready to embark on your shopping journey. Still feeling overwhelmed? Lewis has selected a couple of products that could work for you.
‘If you want to enhance foreplay, a small vibrating finger toy could work like the DiGiT, designed for precision pleasure while also being petite yet powerful,’ he suggests. ‘If penetration is the focus, a couple’s cock ring, like the ATOM Plus, can provide the perfect amount of dual stimulation.’
Keep reading for our suggestions.
Best Sex Toys for Couples to Shop Now
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BEST COCK RING FOR COUPLES
LELO TOR 3 Vibrating Couples’ Ring
£111 at LELO£111 at LELORead review
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BEST COUPLES SEX TOY FOR BEGINNERS
Smile Makers The Whisperer
£35 at Smile Makers£35 at Smile MakersRead review
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BEST PREMIUM SEX TOY FOR COUPLES
LELO SMART WAND 2 Medium
£119 at LELO£119 at LELORead review
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BEST VIBRATING COCK RING FOR COUPLES
Lovehoney Lovehoney Bed Ringer Rechargeable Double Cock Ring
£40 at Lovehoney£40 at LovehoneyRead review
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BEST CLITORAL VIBRATOR FOR COUPLES
Dame Eva Couples Vibrator
£105 at She Spot£105 at She SpotRead review
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BEST PROSTATE MASSAGER
Mantric Remote Control Prostate Vibrator
£70 at Lovehoney£70 at LovehoneyRead review
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BEST ANAL BEADS FOR COUPLES
LELO SORAYA Beads Anal Massager
£149 at LELO£149 at LELORead review
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BEST LONG DISTANCE COUPLE SEX TOY
We-Vibe Sync O Couples Vibrator
£159 at we-vibe.com£159 at we-vibe.comRead review
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BEST SEX ACCESSORY FOR COUPLES
Liberator Microfibre Sex Position Wedge
£100 at Lovehoney£100 at LovehoneyRead review
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BEST SUCTION SIMULATOR FOR COUPLES
Bellesa Finger Pro Air
£29 at Bellesa£29 at BellesaRead review
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LELO TOR 3 Vibrating Couples’ Ring
£111 at LELO £111 at LELO Read review
Smile Makers The Whisperer
£35 at Smile Makers £35 at Smile Makers Read review
LELO SMART WAND 2 Medium
£119 at LELO £119 at LELO Read review
Lovehoney Lovehoney Bed Ringer Rechargeable Double Cock Ring
£40 at Lovehoney £40 at Lovehoney Read review
Dame Eva Couples Vibrator
£105 at She Spot £105 at She Spot Read review
Mantric Remote Control Prostate Vibrator
£70 at Lovehoney £70 at Lovehoney Read review
LELO SORAYA Beads Anal Massager
£149 at LELO £149 at LELO Read review
We-Vibe Sync O Couples Vibrator
£159 at we-vibe.com £159 at we-vibe.com Read review
Liberator Microfibre Sex Position Wedge
£100 at Lovehoney £100 at Lovehoney Read review
Bellesa Finger Pro Air
£29 at Bellesa £29 at Bellesa Read review
How We Choose the Best Sex Toys for Couples
Our in-house sex writers, alongside a team of MH editors and writers, personally tested every toy in our line-up. They got intimate for several weeks, putting every feature and function to the test, including battery life, vibration power and waterproof capabilities. You know, just in case you thought they were lying down on the job.
The Best Sex Toys for Couples at a Glance
- Best all-rounder: LELO Tor 3 Pleasure ring, £139 £111.20
- Best for sex-tech novices: Smile Makers The Whisperer, £34.95
- Best premium couples’ toy: LELO Smart Wand 2, £149 £111.79
- Best vibrating cock ring: Lovehoney Bed Ringer Rechargeable Double Cock Ring, £39.99
- Best clit vibrator for couples: Dame Eva Couples Vibrator, £105.00
- Best gay couple sex toy: Mantric Remote Control Prostate Vibrator, £79.99
- Best anal beads for couples: LELO SORAYA Beads, £199 £119.40
- Best long distance couple sex toy: We-Vibe Sync O, £159.99
- Best kinky sex toy for couples: Bondage Boutique Metallic Fantasy Bondage Kit (3 Piece), £34.99 £22.99
- Best sex game for couples: Get Closer Conversation Game: Couples, £32
17 Best Sex Toys for Couples in 2025
From vibrating cock rings to wearable sex tech, keep scrolling for our pick of the best tried-and-tested teasers for couples.
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Up to 120 minutes of play per charge -
One fan reported: ‘Best on market… this thing rocks both partners’
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You will have to cycle through all 8 modes to get back to your top-rated -
Fitted with 3 speeds and 2 pulsation modes
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Expect the silent treatment; this one’s super quiet
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Take it worldwide; it’s USB rechargeable
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Exclusively for external stimulation
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Up to FOUR hours of uninterrupted action
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One review raves: ‘This wand is perfect as it can go from therapeutic to sexy in no time’
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A little heavy, coming in at 383 grams
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Travel lock makes it perfect for weekends away
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Double ring helps vibrator stay in place
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Could be too tight for larger packages
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Hands-free
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‘I don’t want sex without it,’ one reviewer claims
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A tad noisy
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That flared, textured base lets your perineum join in on the fun
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One review raves: ‘So good I bought a second one for my wife… it works like a rabbit vibrator but the angle of the shaft works her g-spot hard’
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Mind the buttons on the base when grinding
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Up to 120 minutes of play
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Virtually silent, making sounds no louder than 60 dB
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Every LELO aid comes with a satin storage pouch and detailed instruction manual
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Consider it an investment
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10 intensity levels
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That adjustable hinge means it’ll work for vaginas of all shapes, sizes and depths
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85% of toy testers claimed it ‘significantly’ improved their next round of partnered sex
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Made with heterosexual matches in mind
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Ideal for those with mobility issues
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Enables deeper penetration
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Removable cover for washing
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On the pricier side for what it is (but worth it!)
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Gives your mouth (and fingers) a break
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Won’t get in the way during penetrative sex
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No pattern settings and it’s pretty gentle, as intensity goes
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Velcro cuffs come fitted with quick-release clips for a speedy exit
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Adjustable ball gag (15.5-22 inches) and blindfold (19.5-23.5 inches)
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We suggest adding a sex blanket into the mix for an easy clean up
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Made for matches of all ages (18+) and genders
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You choose the length and intensity of your game
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Printed on 100% recycled, compostable paper
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Includes some big, confronting questions
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Houses THREE motors for widespread delight
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Suited to long-distance couples — and power play fans
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A little loud, but your partner probably will be too
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This one’s got some power
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Plenty of choice with three speeds and seven vibration patterns
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On the noisier side (beware for public play!)
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Can be used static and as a stroker
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8 speeds and a unique ’turbo’ function
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A little heavy for lengthy sessions
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A premium offering without the price tag
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Simultaneously works her Kegel muscles, aiding bigger and better orgasms
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Fans say practise is required to find the right sexual position(s)
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Luxe packaging
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Something for everyone
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It’s an investment!
So you’ve brought a new toy into the bedroom, but you’re not how to use it?
Worried you’re going to get frustrated with your new bedroom buddy and abandon it mid-sesh? We asked the experts for tips on using sex toys as a couple, so that they add to the moment, rather than take away from it.
Unsurprisingly, sex toys should start where any good night starts: foreplay. ‘If you are completely new to using toys, start by introducing them as part of foreplay,’ Lewis says.
‘Using a toy outside of penetrative sex first (like teasing with a vibrator) can help normalise it before adding it to intercourse, and using the build-up to go all the way can also be highly arousing.
‘Most importantly, don’t forget to use lube. Lube makes everything better and more comfortable, especially with vibrating toys.’
And, as much as technique is important, your mindset about the benefits of using sex toys as a couple is just as crucial. Sex toys are toys — they’re meant to be fun, after all!
‘Have fun with it!,’ Lewis advises. ‘Sex toys should be about pleasure, play, and discovery. Remember to approach it with a sense of adventure rather than a performance mindset or particular goals or expectations.’
Yurlove.com offers a curated selection of premium vibrators for couples, including top-rated options like the We-Vibe Sync 2, designed to enhance shared pleasure. Explore our collection to find the best vibrator for couples.
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